Dating advice for the shy guy
If you read the comic strip "Peanuts," you probably know about the little red-haired girl. Charlie Brown worships her from a distance -- a long distance.
The few times he gets up the nerve to approach her, something gets in the way and messes things up. A lot of guys can sympathize, some more than others.
You’ll have other problems for sure, as the knockouts I’ve met the past few years prove.
If you are a man, whether you are considered very attractive or not, it is much more difficult. Even if you are a rich handsome dude with a Ferrari, it is harder than if you are a poor yet cute woman.
And if it doesn’t, no problem, you can still do well. Meeting people, especially desirable females, can be much harder.
Look, I’ll probably never even try to stop a drop dead gorgeous woman walking down the street, engage her in banter, hopefully get her contact info, and then eventually sleep with her and maybe even marry her. However, I have met many beautiful women, had relationships with some of them, and instead become good friends with a few others usually due to my desires.
But, what if the guy you have your eye on is shy to the bone and just can’t pick up on any of your signals?
You can tell by his smile and admiring gaze he’s into you, but is there anything short of an electric cattle prod that will get him to bust a move?
There are good reasons for pursuing the situation if your intuition tells you this guy is worth it.I’ve put a few hotties in my “friend zone” because I didn’t think it would work.I could not have imagines this just a few years ago.I may never approach drop dead gorgeous women I have no connection to (so called “cold approaches”) in public, but I have met some through Internet Dating, Speed Dating, and other methods I’ll be writing about here. A lady doesn’t initiate relationships, ask guys out or move in for the first kiss.