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She’s just mad because I won’t give her what she wants but she needs to accept that this is all I can give and go with the flow.” The likelihood is that Mr Unavailable will believe that he has lost you or is in serious danger of losing you when: 1) A greater period of time has passed than your previous break-up/break.
2) You’ve got really medieval on his ass and something makes him believe that it may be different this time.
If you really saw him for what he is, you wouldn’t be chasing him, hence the door is wide open for him to test the waters and come back into your life.
He sees you as someone who must have her own issues if you are willing to put with his BS and not see him for what he is. Since I cut contact in September 2007, does he know that I am done “playing”??
You are emotionally unavailable too with issues about commitment and you need to deal with these if you really want to move forward. Baggage Reclaim is a guide to learning to live and love with self-esteem by breaking the patterns that stand in your way.
The moment Mr Unavailable feels scared he’ll get to running. The last time I saw him he was almost nasty to me, did he do that so that i will leave him alone and not contact him anymore? I’m gonna be so mean to you tonight, you won’t want to see me again and if you do, you just prove to me that you’re not worthy anyway…’ Do you see where I’m headed with this? Let’s say that you hadn’t chased him, he would have been curious about you and chased you to see if it was an act and whether he could reel you in.
Sometimes with Mr Unavailable, they are telepathically trying to tell you ‘Can’t you see that I ain’t sh*t! Everything we do just confirms various beliefs that they have and no matter what, they always get to be right.
He is incapable of accessing his emotions and he purposefully keeps himself at a distance from everything that has the potential to tax him emotionally. When he did see me for a few weeks at a time and then disappears, was this just a “fix” that he needs once in a while? When he had a spare moment or was going through an insecure phase, you were ideal.
But then he’d realise he hadn’t changed or realise he’d got what he needed. The first time we dated for a few months we spent a lot of time together, was this pretend or did he just happen to have time?