Not interested in dating right now
At the time, I did like the guy, but I wasnt into him really, and was confused so I figured I wasnt ready for a relationship, and I truely believed it.
I sincerly wasnt looking for a relationship, and then I met the next guy a few months later and everything changed.
Romantic relationships generally end up being pretty demanding in terms of the time, sacrifice and level of personal disclosure required to make them work.
For those who value space to do their own thing - there needs to be a really strong connection before they'll want one.
Not long into the relationship then the couple start to have issues and instead of feeling free to walk away they start trying to fix things as if they are already married or they are the last couple on earth. What changed me from that dating way of thinking to the marriage minded was the sudden feeling that this man was the only one I ever thought about in a positive way on a consistant basis..then since he was feeling the same, we began to think about what a marriage between us would be like.
As it turned out, all other important factors besides love also fit so we gave it a try....29 years ago and running.
When they say this to you it really means "I'm not looking for a relationship right now WITH YOU" Girls are smart...leave off the last two words so they don't hurt your feelings.And the older the women are the more actively they are looking. There's one woman that I know that has been divorced and is now 45 that does not want to be in a relationship.Older single women does not mean they want to be in a relationship.If you want a serious relationship then you need to find a gal that has her door open( or unless you are a celebrity or someone they think is way beyond them ).Please note: The suggestions and advice offered on this web site are opinions only and are not to be used in the place of professional psychological counseling or medical advice.