Dating more than one person at a time liberal woman dating a conservative christian man

Of course, once I met someone stellar, I stopped with the two-timing and focused my energy on one wonderful man.

As an aside, in this day and age, dating two (or more) people at once is not considered duplicitous or “two-timing.” Until you have The Exclusivity Talk, you’re free to gad about, dating whomever in whatever quantity you desire.

Women are planners, and those who think ahead enjoy backup plans.

Just like we prefer to have an extra umbrella in the bottom of the closet and more than one pair of jeans, so too are we more able to relax when we have more than one dating partner.

“It’s healthy to date multiple people if you aren’t ready for commitment and aren’t sure of what you are looking for, as long as you are honest with the people you are dating,” Levine says.

In other words, if you’re ISO a diamond ring, dating three people at once is probably not wise.

So go slow, and pay attention to how all of this makes you feel.

You may be a one-woman or one-man kind of gal, and that is totally OK.

That woman is my roommate, a buoyant Dutch personal trainer who joyously skips through life as I shuffle through existence. Better yet, put your phone on silent while you two are together.I’ve also noticed that she’s happiest when she’s dating a couple of people at once.This has changed now that she has started seeing someone she really likes, but until recently, I encouraged her to keep seeing this other, duddier guy throughout, just so she wouldn’t concentrate all of her anxieties on one dude.I advised her not to put all of her dating eggs in one basket, if you will.I know how borderline insane that sounds, but I did that too when I was single: About six months after a long relationship ended, I dated two men, a professor and a crazy person, basically on two opposing sides of the spectrum, for about a month simultaneously. I knew I wasn’t serious about both, didn’t get hung up on either, and walked away bruise-free.

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